I wrote a similar article and posted it a few days ago. I was expecting a big response from my readership and others. You would think that article has the Covid virus. I think you're right. It makes people too uncomfortable. I bared my soul. I told about things that victims are ashamed of even though it's the abuser who should be ashamed. Men who are the victims are looked upon with suspicion. If you'd like to read my article. It's Why Women Stay in Abusive Marriages.