Tessa, due to your disability, you don't understand the mating ritual. You also take everything at face value. If you are attractive and you approach a man and ask for something as simple as directions, he is going to hit on you. I can see why those men thought you were interested in them. I was also beautiful in my day. I married an ugly man to get away from my mother. People would ask, right in front of him, why I married such an ugly man.